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Journey of Fighting Depression

February 4, 2016 By: Stacey10 Comments

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Driving through our neighborhood one late in January night, my 4 year old son spotted a house with all of their golden lights from Christmas still brightly lit.

He doesn’t understand why they are still on if the holiday is a fading memory from his head. My son and I laughed at how they “must have forgotten” to take them down and we continued to drive through the streets that still had a bit of snow and ice on the sides.

It was all kinds of depressing.

The world around us has that cold and unfeeling look. This is the time of year that I am most afraid of.

It can trigger my depression.

There is something about these late winter months that bring back old memories and create feelings of being lost.

Some call it seasonal depression. Others will say it’s just the blues.

I know better. It doesn’t matter right now what I call it. The implications that could come, alert me to what measures I need to take now to prevent it.

My flashbacks take me to nights where there was little to no sleep. When I would wake up, tissues were everywhere…. signs of the crying I could never seem to stop.

The whys, whats, and how my depression began are for another time and place.

Eventually, my family found out. I also shared with some friends. There were so many mixed reactions. Talking about depression was practically unheard of back then.

Another flashback comes. This is the time of when I felt like I couldn’t breathe and having the feeling that an elephant was sitting on my chest . One ambulance ride later and I was diagnosed with having “panic attacks”. It was terrifying to not understand what was going on with my body.

My parents were supportive. It probably was heartbreaking to pick your daughter up from the hospital after receiving that phone call.

Therapy would go off and on for the next few years. I would also try different types of antidepressants that changed my moods and left me not myself. It took a long time to find that right one for me. So many times, I felt like a failure.

Through baby steps, the crying and heartache stopped. My brother mailed me a card from college that would have me laughing out loud. I lost some baggage I didn’t need in my life.

I slept. I woke up with not a tissue in sight. Smiles stayed longer and I no longer felt like hiding.

Strength is something I am very proud of. There are so many people who have this in them to fight depression.

It is always an ongoing awareness and journey to be in a good place.

So, when the lights go off around the neighborhood and I feel a tiny voice deep down start to come alive, I listen.

And continue my journey.

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Comments

  1. Joanne says

    February 4, 2016 at 7:55 pm

    Beautiful!! So heart felt Stacey 🙂

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    • Stacey says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      Thank you!!!

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  2. Heather says

    February 4, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    So beautifully written!!!! Thanks for the honesty!!!

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    • Stacey says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      Thank you! I appreciate that!

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  3. Katie Endicott says

    February 4, 2016 at 9:40 pm

    What a brave real post! I think you will help a lot of people from writing it.

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    • Stacey says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      I hope so. Thank you for reading and commenting!

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  4. KIM says

    February 5, 2016 at 5:39 am

    Depression is such a common feeling and an emotional rollercoaster. Yes, it can hit at any time. To be able to be aware of it and share your story is a strength in itself, thank you!

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    • Stacey says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:23 pm

      Thank you so much, Kim! I appreciate that.

      Reply
  5. Dawn Quyle Landau says

    March 23, 2016 at 8:49 am

    So many of us face depression, at one time or another. It is brave of you to make yourself vulnerable, and share your journey with others. When we all share, the burden is lighter!

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    • Stacey says

      March 31, 2016 at 10:55 pm

      So true! Thank you so much for your kind words.

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